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It can be tiring living in a world that won't recognise you as a person, or at the least won't acknowledge a variety of experience.
Maybe they might eventually, but not until they squeeze everything from those dumb enough to pay for Instagram pictures first.
So, yeah, it's understandable to not know or realise unless it's made clear.
It's weird and tricky, especially when it seems so contrary or different to your experience.
These kinds of people always pretend they will be and just scam people relentlessly until they stop getting money then move on to something else.
Also, we have to work with a system that's not designed for us, and they need to make money.
So, no trolling, and not trigger policing, though the above was probs on a bad day where I had less patience.