Sexiness exudes from my confidence, smile and acceptance of myself.
But now, in my 50s, I have a whole different perspective; namely, I don't feel like I need to act likable and sexy and desirable and free because I know that I already am all of those things.
In my 20s I worried I wasn't smart enough, curvy enough, sexy enough to say 'yes' to all the things I wanted to try.
In my 20s, I compared myself to others and the standards fashion and beauty magazines dictated.